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Spanking is super fun if everyone involved is fully prepared and into it. Here's how to get started. There are several things that make a good smack on the bottom so appealing. On a purely physical level, spanking increases blood flow to the bum and the genitals, thus increasing sexual arousal. Whether you enjoy the hot and prickly sensation of a smacked butt or the opportunity to bring out your submissive side, spanking can be a great way to explore together. What should you do if you want to introduce spanking into your life, but you're not sure how to suggest it, or even if your partner will want to? If you're feeling brave, you could whisper that you've been a naughty girl and need to be taught a lesson. Bit cringe but also totally hot. So keep it light-hearted and be prepared to deal with any issues that come up.
Back in the day, spanking might have been something your mom did to you when you were in trouble—aka when you refused to come home after playing outside with the neighbs or started throwing around cuss words because you thought you were cool. Those times were Did we get your attention yet? Morgan recommends using visuals to get your point across. Are you open to it? Before you get started, come up with a safe word with your partner so the two of you know when to stop the action, Morgan strongly advises. First, start with your hands. Also, before you go to spank, take note of how big your hand is—obvi, a bigger hand might have a heavier impact than a smaller hand. There are four zones of the butt you want to impact: The top near your back, the sides by your hips, the underside of your cheeks, and the middle, squishy part. Paddles can be used to reach different parts of your cheek, and using a standing position can work well—especially when bending at the waist.
Sex is a funny thing. It exists in this strange little space where you get to say and do things that could get you beat up and banned from mostly anywhere else. Ever try spanking someone because they cut you in line at the grocery store? Not cool.